OLDSIncubus's profile
Profile text:I'm mostly here to chat and visit. I'm not looking for a new LTR, partner, or hubby. I've backed off from the dating and mostly hook up scene. I've become disenchanted and become a bit jaded one could say, but the option isn't dead, it's just not an upfront option on day one. I'm widowed, a couple years now since 2021; I've been through 2 major relationships in my life, one 12yr relationship, and the other 8yrs, and feel like I've lost that interest or drive. Not to say I may not enjoy an occasional FWB situation, but that's as far as it will most likely go for now I think. I've just been learning to be with myself and not looking for anything really than to grow back into myself.
It has been a rough path these past several years, but a journey I am moving forward through. Looks aren't as important to me, as much as a good personality, intelligence, and a genuine sincere smile. But still I like to know who I'm talking to so please be willing to share a current face picture if you want to make and keep regular contact.
I do have a soft spot for silver bearded men, with kind smiling eyes. A good genuine smile will probably get you farther along in my books than anything.
I am an introvert, and have some difficulty starting and maintaining regular conversations. That's only compounded by the fact that I work a full-time overnight hospital job. So my social battery gets worn down quickly, and sometimes, even via text, I just lose the energy to communicate with others. If I don't respond right away, that's probably the reason. If it takes me more than a week to respond, well that means I've just gotten embarrassed after a few days, and think it feels awkward to try and reestablish the conversation again.
My MB results from 16Personalities
INFP
Introverted--100%
Intuitive----76%
Feeling------56%
Prospecting--51%
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