flinthills69's profile

		Profile ID: 2466954
Age	68
Height	5'8" ft
	(173 cm)
Weight	201 lb
	(91 kg)
Sexually is	oral versatile
City	Manhattan
Zip / postal	66503
State	Kansas
Country	United States
Seeking	sex partner(s) friends
Prefer men aged from 20 to 90

Profile text:

STRAIGHT TO THE CHASE - I will feed you or swallow you or both. Any race welcome, any cock size welcome (I enjoy diversity). If time and circumstances allow, edging, prolonged contact, give and take is wonderful.

PERSONAL
I lead with my mind, not my cock. Both are big, both like to play. Connection desired, physical contact needed and always appreciated regardless of role and function.

Oral versatile pleaser, seeks NSA oral give and take - either potential or both.

Seeking nice guys, authenticity, from mostly straight / curious to Bi to trans /CD, top or bottom for oral / oral verse, edging, give and take, whoever cums first looses (or wins, depending on your perspective). For me, it's more about the physical contact and connection I have not had for over two decades, as well as the psychological dynamics.

I am just a little bit more straight than bisexual, comfortable in any role, with just enough experience to have satisfied my curiosity, masculine MWM (female spouse disabled for over two decades) DDF, smoke free, very clean, hairy and bearded but trimmed. I'm top heavy - barrel-chested, broad shoulders, former athlete.
Vaccinated and Boosted.

STRAIGHT TALK ABOUT NOT BEING QUITE STRAIGHT . . .

There is an incredible exchange of vulnerability and trust . . . submission and dominance . . . weakness and power . . . in any man-on-man sexual activity. And sometimes it goes both ways at the same time.

For example, go ahead, make me suck your cock. My mouth is all over your cock, balls, maybe your ass. Did you make me? And who is actually in control? Think about it. Your cock, your balls, are in my mouth. Your most fragile and highly valued body parts are in my teeth, my most dangerous part. That's vulnerability and trust on your part. But as the one in the submissive role, me, I am actually in the position of power, dominating the one who (one the surface, superficially) plays the role of dominating me. Your cock, my mouth . . . who's in charge?

Here's my cock. Give me yours. We are both in both roles. Given that trust, that vulnerability, I consider it a gift. Here's my precious. Give me your precious. Dominate me as I dominate you. Or let's take turns. What a head trip.

And if you convince me to top you or to let you top me . . . again, an incredible exchange of power. But I'll think that I'm in charge because I'm trying to please you.

That is a mind trip. Perhaps one of the reasons that we want to suck another man's cock is that we want to be trusted. Some psych nerds, like me, say that to be trusted is more to be desired than to be loved. Maybe, it's the same.

There are so many oral givers and bottoms on this site. Cocks and tops seem rare on any site. That's likely because we formerly straight men have evolved in the same or in similar ways to want what we have not had. Is is variety? Is it that we want to swap roles? We have given, now we want to receive. We have received, now we want to give. Psychologically, we may "want to be the woman," want to know what it's like to suck or be fucked. Put it in my mouth, put it in my ass.

Let me know what you think, what you need and want, and why. Numerous readers have shared with me that these concepts ring true of them.

Well, I do want your cock, balls, maybe your ass. But I will gladly give you mine as well. We cocksuckers need to learn that we can take care of each other. Otherwise, we all go wanting. Suck me, while I suck you . . . or after . . . or before . . . It's all negotiable and go with the flow.


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